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As a Mentor, there may come a time when you feel something just isn\u2019t working. Perhaps you\u2019ve made a mistake or else you and your Mentee just aren\u2019t quite clicking. Today we\u2019ll explore what mentoring gone wrong really looks like and the measures you can take to set yourself back on the right course when things take a turn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The Challenges of Mentoring<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Every job has its challenges and mentoring is no different. While mentoring is a fun and largely stress-free way to generate income, it\u2019s nonetheless important to be aware of the problems that might crop up and how you can work around them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So what are the main challenges of being a mentor<\/a>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The biggest problems you\u2019re likely to encounter in your mentoring career are almost always likely to revolve around communication. That shouldn\u2019t come as much of a surprise, considering that a Mentor\u2019s role is, in large, that of a communicator and facilitator. Whether you\u2019re just having a meeting to get to know your Mentee or introducing them to contacts and colleagues for the first time, you\u2019ll be the one exchanging information and passing along your knowledge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If that sounds like a lot of responsibility then don\u2019t panic. While it\u2019s true that you\u2019re ultimately the one responsible for making sure the right information gets to the right people, it\u2019s very important to remember that you\u2019re still human and most clients and colleagues will respect that fact. So long as you\u2019re honest and upfront then almost any \u2018mentoring gone wrong\u2019 situation can be handled easily enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How to Navigate Mistakes<\/h2>\n\n\n
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Mistakes happen, especially when you\u2019re new to a role. One of the best parts of being a Mentor is that there\u2019s a far shallower learning curve than there would be with almost any other job. After all, you\u2019re here because of the things you already<\/em> know. That being said, there are still things to learn and simply being aware of that fact will make it a lot easier to navigate difficult situations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In a relationship like mentoring, there is a fair amount of collective responsibility. That\u2019s why when mistakes do happen, the first thing you should always do is aim to pin-point the cause without directly blaming people<\/a> where possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For example, let\u2019s say your Mentee misinterprets a piece of advice you have given them for a job interview. They\u2019re unsuccessful in the interview and ultimately fail to get the job. In this scenario it\u2019s quite possible that your Mentee will blame you for failing to provide accurate advice while you may be tempted to blame them for failing to understand your instructions. The Mentee may be frustrated and even emotional and this could lead to further conflict. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The key to navigating this situation is to understand that miscommunication<\/a> goes both ways and to extend as much good faith as possible. By admitting to some degree of fault on your end, you\u2019ll likely be able to defuse the situation and you may even find your Mentee starts to back down and take responsibility themself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s also worth noting that this is a great opportunity for you to demonstrate pragmatism in the face of problems. In responding to your Mentee, try to speak practically about the next steps you should take. Try to channel any emotions they might be feeling into constructive activities and reassure them that every mistake is a learning opportunity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Acting with Respect and Professionalism<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The idea of mentoring gone wrong might seem daunting but, as with all things, the most successful Mentors are those who embrace mistakes as a part of the process.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One of the biggest challenges to working in any freelance role can be finding a good balance between your work life and your personal life, and this problem can easily be enhanced if you\u2019re worried about mistakes you might have made. This is why it\u2019s vitally important to do everything you can to stop your professional worries extending into your personal hours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Doing this often means finding ways to be emotionally removed from the problems of work. That\u2019s not to say you shouldn\u2019t have passion, but you should aim, wherever possible, to see a work problem as just another puzzle to be tackled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Viewing your work this way will also make it far easier to build professional respect between you and your Mentee. Put simply, it\u2019s possible to feel invested in their success without taking setbacks as anything more than a short term issue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

At the end of the day, any mentoring relationship ultimately involves learning on both ends. While your Mentor will be learning from you about how to navigate your job role, you\u2019ll be learning from them about how to teach different types of people and the different styles in which people learn. In the long run this will not only help you become a stronger Mentor but these skills will translate into other areas of your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re ready to face challenges with an eager mindset, learning and growing as you go, then we\u2019d love to have you as a Mentor here at Career Navig8r. Sign up today and become the role model<\/a> you always dreamed of having.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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